settling down..

It has been a long time since i started updating my blog, after all, i had been a recipient of life’s many blessings which kept me the busiest person alive. Probably, what made me not update this for a heck of 7 months was because of two things, to wit:  1. I was busy with law school and 2. I was on that phase of "settling down."

Singly, i thought of leaning more to that side of "settling down" since there isn’t too much to talk about LAW. I am decided to write about what has kept me happy and blessed since then until now. A lot of my close friends are witnesses to how love has grown between me and my-then-boyfriend-now, husband. They have told me that i have changed a lot and that my priorities were changed. I used to be so independent and got what i wanted since i work so hard for it. Night-outs and those which require all night partying were not my idea but i always look forward to a music gig, though i am not a music-person.

I admit i am in the present state of wanting the best for our marriage. Like being happy and contented whenever we are together. Not looking for faults but instead trying to reinforce positive comments to your partner. I can be stubborn at times since i insist to be argumentative. I can still be the OCDC type when buying but i am glad my husband understands me and accept the things that are kind of hard to let go. My husband makes me do things that will make me happy. He feels that i have to let go the conservative side in me, since most of my growing up years were spent in Bicol. These are but of the nicest things i am most glad of having TJ beside me. Literally, seeing him sleep and waking up all engrossed by him.

I love dressing up and he loves dressing me up too. I love to pig out and be merry and he insists on loving that too. I love to cuddle from sunrise to sunset and he is like that too. He tells me that i still look gorgeous even if i am on my last trimester. He still thinks i am going to be a good mommy since i can be a homebuddy and a working mom at the same time.

Looking forward, we anticipate for Svetlana Viktoria C. Roxas. In a few months time, I am like those who always strive to know what is best. I know my mother instinct will guide me through. Now that i am already a wife to my husband, i wish nothing but the very best for us. I am vigilant on the things that will weaken us and probably lead us to some point of experiencing a "rocky" relationship, but since both of us pray hard and do good to each other, we can beat the odds of what is commonly called as, married life. 

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